Dear Isabelle,
I will tell your readers one thing you have helped and supported me when my son had his head beat into a concrete floor and all of the other abuse by Dozier staff, my son is still going through this being trapped in a failed system, and I might have broken down, if it had not been for your support in to many ways to type out, and the fact that you still support us and offer your kind help, {never asking for anything in return}, in dealing with this nightmare is real!
How you have helped me to deal with this, and the blogs, and emails, and letters to press and media and trying to bring this abuse to public attention so we can stop it, not just the abuse of my son, but we have found so much more since we started and continue to work on this together, and your skills Isabelle, are excellent in helping others unconditionally!
We love and thank you for your continuing support, and you are an Angel to me and my family! Most sincerely, Mark Caldwell, I love you son!!!!
July 4, 2007 6:17 AM
Anonymous said... CAICA, you have my full support!!!
July 4, 2007 11:20 AM
Isabelle, I just wanted to also leave MY support for you here. Your readers need to know how much you have also helped me and my family. Without your support, and guidance I too would have broken down.
I can't express the appreciation that we have for all the time and effort that you have put into helping us and putting out press releases, bring our story to the Country, and never giving up in helping to stop the abuse.
My son was held in the Florida DJJ system as well, without your support for him and for us, well, I don't know what we all would have done.
Your readers need to know that you were there for us, never asking for anything in return!!
Never give up Isabelle.. your work is the proof of your dedication to all abused Kids and family!!! Thank you so very much for being there for us Isabelle!!!
You are also our Angel!!
Anonymous said...
Isabelle has been nothing but helpful to me and my daughter since I pulled my child from Majestic Ranch Academy in Feb of 2005 after she had spent 4 months there.
Isabelle is an honest person, truly trying to help the huge number of abused kids in bogus "programs" which prey on desperate parent's worst fears.
You do good work, Isabelle, and CAICA is a godsend for many of us trapped between a rock and a hard place in dealing with a system that truly does not care about kids, and greedy, inhumane "programs" that claim to help our kids, when in reality they make a bad situation much worse, after picking the family's pockets.
Tricia Bolster
July 4, 2007 12:28 PM
Dawn Chase said...
I cannot thank you enough for the support and the friendship that you have given me and my Son Christopher Sholly. He too was abused in the Florida DJJ system, and had his childhood and adolescent years stolen from him.
You have support from all of the family's and kids that you have helped and been there for!!! We love you, and thank you!! Dawn Chase Mother of a VICTIM of DJJ abuse!
July 4, 2007 3:38 PM
Cathy Corry, JUSTICE4KIDS.ORG said... Isabelle and CAICA,
Tragically, many children suffer abuse by people entrusted to care for them. You are the bright light that shines over this evil darkness! I have the utmost respect for your devotion to child advocacy and I believe that you have saved many lives! We are often the only voice to save the children!
July 4, 2007 7:02 PM
Julie Hoefs said...
Isabelle and CAICA were extremely supportive and helpful to me and my family when my 7 year old niece Angellika "Angie" was killed due to being held in a prone restraint.
She got paid nothing and still she worked very hard to spread the word to show how dangerous prone restraint is.
We appreciate CAICA and Isabelle!!!!
July 5, 2007 5:13 AM
Dear Isabelle,
Throughout the last year and a half, I have come to know and trust you. You were the only advocate who took the time to talk, listen and gain my trust. I have dealt with many professionals in the 9 years I have been managing my child's problems. You are the only one who has gone the distance to hold accountable those who assult, molest, torture and murder innocent children.
The professionals that are entrusted with our "problem" children are lacking compassion, vision, and patience. They are under paid by those who are flush with the high dollar payments the parents make hoping for REAL help for their children.
I brought my child home from a WWASP program after learning that a staff was having sex with one of the students there. The school covered up the crime. Other parents shut their eyes and claimed that "we" (the parents who knew for a fact it was true) we're lying, as an excuse to bring our child home.
My child was not totally ready to return to regular public school. I kept my child home for another nine months. During this time, I became acquainted with you and the services CAICA provides. Your support and coaching provided validation, clarity and insight in what to do next.
Please know that I support you 100%. I am available when you need me, as you have been there for me & my child.
In all sincerity and support, Name withheld until pending lawsuit is settled.
July 5, 2007 10:25 AM
Isabelle
I want your readers to know just how important your work is, and how much you helped our family when we were faced with removing my son from Tranquility Bay in Jamaica.
It was such a trying time, and you took time off from your busy schedule to talk with me, and calm my daughter, and help us make an informed decision.
You went out of your way to sway us from placing him in any other facility, and never once mentioned another facility as an alternative.
You spent many hours on the phone, writing letters, and sending emails to the appropriate authorities, all without ever asking for anything in return.
You are a true child advocate.
Thank you again for all the support you've given us over these past few months.
Anonymous
July 5, 2007 4:08 PM
Hi Isabelle,
Your insight is empowering.
It was really great talking to you! You have helped put things into perspective for me. It is a very difficult decision but knowing that there are people like you & Sue out there who only have the kids best interest at heart takes away the fear of the unknown about programs & the process.
I had no idea this industry (behavioral boarding schools ect..) even existed until I recently started looking for help for my daughter. It's unbelievable how many programs are out there & how many kids are in them. The thought of it not being regulated is very scary.
And reminding me to take a deep breath & not make rash decisions was just what I needed to hear & I am following your advise.
I have decided at this point to seek as much help as possible for my daughter while she remains at home. I have also come to realize that the constant conflict between us isn't getting us any where so I am trying to let go & let her learn some life lessons on her own as long as she agrees to go to counseling ect.
Once I get thru this time in my life I would be very interested in volunteering for an organization that helps parents the way you have helped me. Please keep this in mind if you need any assistance in the future researching places ect.
Thanks again for your time & help.
S
To Isabelle Zehnder: Thank you so very much for stopping by. I would also like to thank you for being in such an important role, you should be very proud of your intentions and efforts. Keep up the good work!
First I would like to send my thanks from the bottom of my heart for everything you (Isabelle) and everyone has, is, will, and are doing for my sister and our family. This has been hard on her as well as us. We want justice, this is what Joey would have wanted. He went for help, not to be killed! We must keep fighting for the ones who are still there and who are scared to talk. We won't give up, neither should you! Thanks you are in my prayers!
Denise C.
Coalition Against Institutionalized Child Abuse
These photos are of Angie Arndt, who died this year one day after being restrained at the Northwest Counseling and Guidance Clinic in Wisc. Cause of restraint? The 7-year-old was "gargling milk." Jesus.





