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Shelter benefits from schools' efforts

By Jennifer Tavlian

 

Nickels, dimes and love built the cozy brick house on Houston Street.

Driving south down that stretch of road, Kaufman High and Norman Jr. High schools are clear on your left. The Kaufman County Public Library is noticeable to your right. But few are aware of the A. Fern Norville Children's Shelter, nestled amidst trees and playground equipment.

That is something Rick and LaReta Williams desperately need changed.

Nearly a decade ago, Rick and LaReta were excited about going to college. Their children were grown and it was time to do something for themselves. Rick had just bought a motorcycle, something he could cruise around the campus of North Texas on.

They never got to go.

The woman who was running the Kaufman County Children's Shelter was in desperate need of help around the holiday season.

“We did a few weeks here and the other couple quit,” Rick said. “I told her I would work three months until she found someone else. That was 10 years ago.”

 

Now Rick is the program director for the shelter and LaReta is the administrator. In those ten years, they have had their ups and downs. They have seen kids come and go. They have gone from buying groceries for their small family to bulking up on 14 gallons of milk per week for a household of 16 kids ranging from infants to teenagers.

They are also dealing with the fact that there is a lot more money going out than there is coming in. Because of tremendous budget cutbacks, the state of Texas has failed to give the shelter two raises they were supposed to receive in the past three years. In the meantime, utility bills are skyrocketing, wages are increasing and anyone who buys groceries for a that many kids in one house has the right to complain.

But they don't. The Williams just state the facts.

“We just had the election and they're so proud of their budget cuts,” Rick said. “They needed to cut the budget because we had 9/11 and the tax base fell and when the legislators met and they were doing damage control. When the tax base came back, they didn't refund all the social services. We're not the only ones in this boat.

“There was a huge article in the Dallas Morning News a few weeks ago about the judge in Tyler and how they just realized how the caregivers don't have enough money because they don't have enough foster homes. There are emergency shelters in the state, a couple in this region, that are closed. Residential treatment centers are closing right and left. They can't stay open.”

Thanks to Kaufman County, though, the shelter will remain open for at least a couple more years.

Students from Kaufman, Crandall, Forney, Kemp, Scurry-Rosser and Terrell independent school districts collected and presented a check for $121, 288.11 to the Children's Shelter.

“I can't tell you the feeling in my heart when our county responded,” Rick told a group of students and superintendents from the six school districts who gathered for lunch at the shelter on Wednesday, Nov. 15. “We didn't have JC Penney's come in here and give us $100,000. We had the people and students and children of Kaufman County stand up and raise money. We have got to have a generation that understands what we're doing. You have kept us alive.”

Without that money, Rick said the shelter probably wouldn't be around this time next year.

“We were down to just a few days operating capital,” he said. “We're supposed to have 90 days operating capital in the bank at all times. We did, three and a half years ago. At one time we had less than one day and then we had some money come in that brought us back up.”

With what Texas currently pays the shelter, close to 30 percent of their funds have to be raised on the outside.

“This $121,000 will go straight to the county auditor under a line item,” Rick said. “They pay our bills. Our money is governed by the county. We're very low-risk for handling money because we don't handle money. They do care very much about us. They do what they can. Kaufman has enough trouble paying for roads and bridges, let alone trying to take care of us. It's our job to go out and try to raise as much money as we can.”

They knock on doors, make telephone calls and hand out brochures to raise awareness of the shelter.

“This year has been especially hard because the few community grants and corporate grants we do qualify for, when Katrina hit last year, all the community money dried right up,” LaReta said. “I understand that need, but that money we kind of count on every year to keep us up to speed wasn't here this year. Our reserve, our cushion, has just dwindled to a very scary point.”

But the money that was raised by the schools won't change how the shelter is run.

“We're going to have to be just as frugal tomorrow as we were last week,” Rick said. “We're going to lose money this month. We lose money every month. We are, without a doubt, a non-profit organization.

“This thing was built in 1984 with nickels and dimes and a few grants, but mostly donations from this community. Now in 2006, it's been saved. We were desperate. If just part of the schools will carry us each year during Spirit Week, it will keep us going.”

Rick said the Dallas Morning News, among other people, are touting how much $100,000 really is. While the donation is much needed and much appreciated, only a duo who has had to dress 205 kids each year for 10 years has any idea how quickly the dollars can dwindle.

The Children's Shelter has not had a raffle since they opened in 1984, but have had to auction off a Rhino, an all-terrain vehicle, to help with the clothing budget. The shelter spends over $30,000 on partially new and used clothing for growing girls and boys.

“We buy them clothes and about four weeks later, they don't fit,” Rick said. “Within a month, they've gained enough weight they don't fit their clothes anymore. What am I going to do; not feed them? No, I'm going to buy them some more clothes and put those clothes in the used clothing department.”

It costs over $3,000 for a child to start school. Most people don't realize that by the time Rick and LaReta have spent that money to get a child ready for school, they leave and the Williams' are left with a whole new group to enroll. Just a few years ago, if the shelter had spent money on clothes for a child from Kaufman or any other county, they would be reimbursed. Now the shelter is left trying to raise money through an auction, which has raised almost $10,000 on top of what they paid for the vehicle.

But for one of the busiest shelters in the state of Texas, it doesn't matter if the child in need of shelter, food, a balance in their life and, most importantly, love, is from Kaufman, Dallas, Van Zandt or any other county.

“They're from heaven as far as I'm concerned,” Rick said. “All these children come from God and it's our responsibility and our honor to take care of them.”

And they get by with a little help from their friends.

 

 

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