Disorder takes away
a child’s voice
By JEAN NASH JOHNSON The
Dallas Morning News
August 29, 2006
MANSFIELD, Texas —
Emily Chapline loves books and the color pink. She
bosses her 5-year-old brother, Blake. She can tear
into a McDonald’s Happy Meal with the best of them.
The 9-year-old is typical and enigmatic.
When asked about her
favorite book, Emily’s chocolate eyes dance behind
her eyeglasses. She leans into her mom, and with her
small hands cups Jana Chapline’s ear and whispers.
There is silence.
“Nancy Drew,” mom
repeats for my benefit. “I love those books!” I
reply. Emily warms up a bit.
But, still, she
hasn’t uttered a word to me.
I had been hanging
out with Emily for a few days this spring — at
school, in occupational therapy and during dinner
with her family. I selfishly was hoping to hear what
I imagined to be the sweet voice of innocence,
curiosity and joy to match the personality of the
spirited little girl before me.
But Emily doesn’t
speak — not to me, not to her teacher, not to her
occupational therapist, not to most of her
classmates. From the time she was able to, Emily has
spoken only to a select few, including her mom, dad,
brother and grandparents. She also has two “talking
friends,” peers she converses with.
Emily was diagnosed
five years ago with an extreme form of shyness
called selective mutism after her mom had fought
endlessly to get help for her daughter, who had
encountered medical and emotional issues since
birth.
“I did not want her
to go through school being labeled as a dumb child,”
Jana says.
Selective mutism is a
complicated childhood anxiety disorder
distinguishable by a child’s inability to speak in
social settings, such as school. Youngsters with the
disorder speak normally in settings where they feel
secure and relaxed.
The disorder still is
referred to as “rare,” but the latest figures from
the American Academy of Child and Adolescent
Psychiatry show that about seven in 1,000 children
are believed to suffer from selective mutism.
Only within the past
10 years has selective mutism attracted the
attention of scientists and doctors. It is
recognized by the American Psychiatric Association
and listed in the psychiatric diagnostic manual.
“Child anxiety in
general has just recently been recognized, and
selective mutism is even lagging behind the rest of
the field,” says Dr. Lindsey Bergman, associate
director of the University of California, Los
Angeles Child Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and
Anxiety Program.
Experts recommend
treatment as early as possible, although it is
unclear how untreated children function and cope as
adults, Bergman says.
Selective mutism
differs from mutism, which renders a person unable
to speak in any situation.
Parents initially may
think the child is refusing to speak, but experts
say a child suffering from selective mutism has a
social anxiety that prevents him or her from talking
in some settings.
Selective mutism is
not caused by a communication disorder such as
stuttering and does not occur as part of a mental
disorder such as autism. It also should not be
confused with a situation in which a child is
hesitant to speak because his or her native language
is not used.
Treatment of children
with selective mutism typically involves behavior
modification, family support and school
participation. A doctor may recommend medications to
treat symptoms of anxiety and social phobia. If the
disorder goes untreated, symptoms can become worse.
“Many times, parents
will wait and hope the child outgrows their mutism,
but without proper treatment most do not and end up
going years without speaking, interacting normally
or developing proper social skills,” says Dr. Elisa
Shipon-Blum, an expert on the disorder and a
clinical assistant professor of psychology and
family medicine at Philadelphia College of
Osteopathic Medicine.
Shipon-Blum also is
executive director of the Selective Mutism
Group-Childhood Anxiety Network, a national
nonprofit group that has helped raise awareness. Her
daughter suffers from the disorder.
SIGNS OF MUTISM
Parents who suspect
their child may have selective mutism should
look for these signs:
• The child fails to
speak in school or other social settings, but
can speak normally in comfortable settings such
as home
• Selective
mutism persists for at least one month
• The difference
between a shy child and one with selective
mutism is that the shy one will warm up to you
after an hour and the other will not.